3/07

You Ain’t So Tough

We Marines are a proud bunch. We have earned the right to be proud. We know the meaning of giving more than we've got for something that is greater than who we are. We have gained the respect and admiration of the world because of our accomplishments. We revel in the reputation of being tough.

Well, don’t let the word get out. We aren’t as tough as some would believe. I have been around enough Marines in my life to know that beneath that shield of armor, under that “leather neck” is a person who has compassion, a reverence for life, and a heart much larger than any hill he has had to climb.

All too often we do not give credit where it belongs. Our strength lies in the team that surrounds us or the partner in life that supports us. Our Association is made up of not only the brave Marines, but their life partners who give them the support and encouragement to carry on even when times are tough. I want to thank all of the wives, life partners, parents, children, or whatever title is appropriate, for the support you have given to your Marine and to the Association. We could not be so strong if it weren’t for you. To the Marines, I ask that you take the time to appreciate those who have supported you. You would not be so tough if it weren’t for them.

This may sound like a personal effigy, and to some extent it is. For those of you who are not aware, I lost my wife this month after a long and valiant struggle with cancer. But the truth is that I had begun this message long before she passed. Her passing only enhances my awareness of how much I learned to appreciate the encouragement she gave to this sometimes difficult to understand Marine. Without her strength, I could not have become the person that I am.

I salute all of our Associate Members and thank you for all that you have done for your Marines and for our Association. Your service and dedication is essential to the existence of our Association.

I want to thank all of you for the prayers, the thoughts, the caring you have extended to me during this difficult time. I can think of no better refuge of comfort than with my Marines.

Semper Fidelis,

Bill Ervin
President, 3rd Marine Division Association